Many men will answer under the gun but it might not be the authentic and sincere
response you're hoping for. Also, different people communicate their affections in
different ways.
While frequent sex is a clear indication of your man's physical interest in you,
gauging his other interests/intentions require paying attention to his actions of
affection. How can you know if he likes you in other ways?
Pay attention to the ways your guy connects with you:
Does he phone or text to just connect or is it always a booty call?
Does he express words or messages of endearment? Words expressing affection
and care?
Perhaps he does things for you to help you out when you're having a hard day or
are faced with a difficult task?
Gifts of any kind? Large or small? The simplest things can be the most endearing –
even a little note says a lot.
Does he ever go out of his way to do or share something special with you?
How likely is he to meet with you just for your company and not so much just for
sex?
Does he make time for you as a priority?
Lots to consider here. Answering these questions can give you clues as to how much
your lover might be thinking or caring about you beyond the sexual. Depending on
how new your relationship is, the extent to these affectionate efforts might differ.
And too, not everyone expresses their care and attention in the same way.
How do you like to be loved? Tell him that. You might find that the most important
indicator that he's thinking about, or likes you, is that he pays attention to your
preferences and makes deliberate attempts to connect with you on that level.
It's clear you connect on the physical level but that's hardly the full picture. Think
about how you like to be loved, tell him about it, and see if he can meet you there.
One way or another you'll discover if you're truly compatible in a deeper way.
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