Every now and then, there may come a time when you get pissed off with a guy.
You may like him, you may be dating him, or you may have broken up with him.
But at the bottom of it all, you may want his attention or you may want to prove your worth to him.
And when you’re upset with a guy or just crying out for his attention, there are a few ways to pierce his heart and make him sit up and take notice of you.
And it all comes down to this.
For a guy to take notice of you, you need to become desirable in his eyes.
Better yet, you need to make him feel like you’re unattainable.
And the only way to do all this is by understanding how to make a guy jealous.
There are some ways to whet his appetite for your company. If your diary is always free, whenever he wants, he won't have as much value on your time. You need to create balance, use psychology that scarcity increases value. It can be hard because on some level you will feel deprived yourself. However, I promise you that not being as available will increase his interest in you.
1. Don't pick up the phone immediately every time he calls. An odd time even let it go to voicemail. Let those old texts lie, texting is really too impersonal, you want him with you, 2nd best is calling.
2. Have BlackOut times, like an exercise classes, afternoon tea or lunch with a friend. If he wants to see you Mondays and you are tired, make an excuse, don't burst a gut.
3. Make sure he knows that though you are unavailable sometimes, you are available...say...Saturday night.
4. Remember if he can 'slot' you into his diary at times that suit him only, i.e you go out of your way to suit him. He may not then see you at times which would be better for your timetable, like when you've more time to get ready, have your hair done, you have a free evening and day off next day. If you want those times filled, you cut down on his other times that don't suit you.
5. Never change your arrangements, letting down friends to be with him. Don't let him call the shots. Your time is important too, he needs to respect that. Don't be afraid to make an arrangement for, say, Saturday night if he hasn't made solid plans to be with you. This will make him book you in advance.
6. Make sure he knows you have a life you enjoy when you aren't with him. This makes you more attractive, and while you don''t want him jealous, let him wonder what YOU are up to in your busy, fun life, rather than assume you're there, all plans on hold trying to spend more time with him. He will feel trapped and like spending time with you is a chore if you nag him.
7. Take up a new hobby, take pride in your appearance, make subtle changes like a different lipstick, blow dry your hair differently, small changes no matter how subtle leave him thinking there is more to learn about you.
8. Have a good sense of humour.
9. Do not text, or call too much during the day, the less you are there through texts, mails, calls, the more he will have to spend time WITH you, which is what you want. Save your exciting news, bits of information, updates until he is with you..Keep phonecalls and text to the absolute minimum, just to make arrangements. Smile when you speak on the phone, speak slowly, but GET OFF
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