How To Tell If A Man Is A Player

Here are some signs that indicate that a man is a player:

He Is Too Smooth
When a guy is a player, he is adept at striking conversations with girls, and is
usually suave in his flirting. Players know that girls are inherently attracted to
“studs” who are self-assured and confident, so they usually project a image of being
super cool and cocky.
They practice their opening lines, their conversation starters and some “flirty” jokes
and punch lines, with professional alacrity. They can “impress” a girl quite easily
with their mannerisms, body language and talk. Of course, most of it is completely
artificial and a “put on” purely for the purpose of catching a girl’s attention and
spiking her attraction.

He Flirts Openly And Boldly
When a guy is a player, his intention is to “capture” as many girls as he can. The
only way he’s going to accomplish this is by “flirting” as much as possible with as
many girls as possible. He will not lose time when he spots a likely target.
He will usually start off with deliberate eye contacts; you will notice that a player
maintains steady eye contact and does not look away when you look back at him. In
fact, he will give you a bold “playful” smile and wait for your reaction. If you look
inviting, he will start initiating friendly conversation and before long he will have
your contact number and may be even a “date”.
Men who are Players are really good at making eye contact. In contrast, most
“normal” guys are quite shy about making eye contact with a girl, and would usually
look away when the girl meets their eye. Players are bold in their approach, and
don’t come across a being shy about making eye contact, smiling or starting a
conversation, and flirting. It’s the quickness and boldness of their approach that
should tip you off.

He's A Bit Too "Interesting"
If guy triggers your attraction within a few moments of interaction, there’s a huge
possibility that he’s a player who is adept at pushing your buttons. When a guy is
only interested in having sex with you, he’s not going to waste time on “non sex”
hours. So he will try to up your attraction as quickly as he can. He will project
himself in such a manner that he comes across as the most “interesting” guy you’ve
ever met. For your own good, you should be cautious when a guy comes across as
being too interesting too soon.

He’s Keen On Physical Intimacy
Guys who are players don’t want to waste their time on developing any “emotional”
intimacy. The only thing they are interested in is physical intimacy and they go for it
as quickly as they can. They will start touching a girl by the first date, and might
even try kissing her. By the second date, they usually try to initiate some form of
physical intimacy. If they sense that a girl is too reserved or cautious, they usually
move on to more interesting prospects. You can almost sense a sexual tension in their
voice and body language, when they are with you on a date.

He Shows A Lot Of "Fake" Interest In You
A players knows that the easiest way to get a girl “swooning” over him is to give
her the “initial” importance. So he praises her, he “listens” to all her opinions and
views, he lets her talk and pretends to be really interested in everything she says, he
pampers her with attention, and basically he makes her feel like she has found her
“prince charming”.

He Triggers "impulsiveness" In You
Girls can get really impulsive when they are blinded in the moment of attraction.
A guy who is a player, knows this weakness in girls. So he will instigate feelings of
“sexual” attraction by his mannerisms and then quickly get her to act out the impulse.
Basically the players are looking for girls who are “easy”, these are the ones who
are impulsive and short-sighted when blinded by attraction. When you are in the
throes of attraction it’s easy to act out of impulse and have sex with him, only to
realize later that you’ve played for.
It’s actually easy to weed out a player. Just make him wait for sex, and if he starts
losing interest you know what his agenda was to start with. If a guy really loves
you, he will not mind waiting for sex till it feels right. This is how you know if a
man really loves you or just wants to have sex with you.
Just remember that if a guy comes across as being too smooth in his approach, it’s
basically because of the practiced ease – he’s just playing you like he has played
others. The only problem is that as a girl, you can get blinded in your attraction.

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